You Tune Into Yourself
We always tune into a specific template that is similar to our own. Even if we are interacting with another human template that appears different very different, physically, ideologically, conceptually, there is enough resonance that matches our own vibration otherwise we would not experience them at all. So when something feels like it doesn't resonate, that is at a conscious level...because at a superconscious level it resonates and that's why you are there in the first place. There always something within that wants to experience everything we are. So we find it.